Don’t Touch My Hair, Just Think Different

September 08, 2020

It’s the offbeat that gets us to tilt our heads, wonder, wonder again or, at least, say to ourselves huh? or hm!. Just like the dancing in Solange’s Don’t Touch My Hair does. A little bit offbeat. An interesting bit of a beat. Now read this last sentence, fast, en français.

When people do exactly what they feel like doing, usually, something very pretty comes out, something unique, actually, does come out.

It seems like no one stressed the… stiffness (?) of the video while brainstorming for the video. In fact, no one seemed to not have cared about it at all. Who would, I know… The perfect frames, the superb lighting, the sensorial choice of clothes and accessories, the unexpected, but so pleasantly found filming angles, all combined with lyrics and ~ hair ~ create a balance thanks to precisely this apparent freestyle dancing. There’s something suave to it.

Just like in real life is. Just like life in a video is.

So we live a life like a videooo...

Solange and the beautiful cast of dancers sway back and forth between frames, you can sense the soft, elegant steps embraced by warm harmonies and falsetto. The general tone is gentle, yet strong. Just like their facial expressions are. Just like the overall message is. Don’t Touch My Hair is the ninth track on Solange’s third studio album, A Seat At The Table.

It sounds and it looks good. Different.

And things that are different just won’t let you do the tough paper work when working from home. Or anywhere. They will make you want to explore. See. Hear. Put them on paper and, only after, get on with the paper work or anything that feels like work.


Solange may not be the next Apple, not everyone out there has to and that doesn’t seem to be her desire anyway. She does what she wants and it’s not just because she’s Beyoncé’s sister that she gets to do what she wants. It’s because… Great for her that she does. Exactly. What. She. Feels.

It, certainly, feels so and what we feel, sometimes, is more valuable than what we see or hear. We know.

And there’s only one Beyoncé, anyway. One Apple. One Nike. One love. Here she goes again, but, newsflash, it all started with offbeat.

Oh, something that is very old, but looks very contemporary or very contemporary that looks very old, it’s looking for the timeless, is something I, recently, heard Axel Vervoordt saying here:

Do you really want to live forever?
Forever and ever young

When originality ~ directly connected to our true selves, to our souls ~ prevails, beware, because this is what can happen:

Rolling Stone said the track uses sparkling synths and drowsy horns as broadsides against those who might deny Knowles and other black women their bodily autonomy, conveying a message of brutal honesty in tender and rich harmonies. 

Pitchfork Magazine wrote that Don’t Touch My Hair moves at a heartbeat’s pulse, subtle and steady, yet vibrant and can be read as an explicit rejection of this behavior (the devalue and alienation of black spaces), as a simple establishment of boundaries, or as a powerful pledge of personal identity.

The Huffington Post gave the song a positive review, highlighting in particular the importance of its message of praising black women’s hair during such a socially volatile period: Hair is used as a metaphor for our entire essence on this track and is the perfect symbol, as our hair is one thing that has always been policed throughout history and into the present

Vogue Magazine found the song to be an uplifting message about hair, and noted how its message relates to a specific community while also being accessible and relevant to the broader community of women in general.

When I Get Home is a different story. Stay tuned. Tunefulness. Nice word, huh? It’s a synonym for harmony.

Your time, sing.

Hey, this is Cristina Pavelescu wearing a music cassette sweater, decoding (life) style and writing from wherever, yet always living in OZ, a world I invite you into. To smile in front of our screens (and live one day), put any kind of questions, answer in writing (or imagination) and marvel at fashion which is, in fact, style.


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