Focus Defocus

March 08, 2018

Kinda like Hocus Pocus.

Don’t you just love it when you wake up in the morning and you, from the start, set your mind to have a good day? The focus! On the good vibes coming from within. On intention.

Obviously, there are days when you wake up and something just doesn’t feel right, but that, too, most of the times, is a decision to begin with. And that, too, feels right sometimes. The defocus. The soaking in whatever life has prepared for you and the acceptance of it turning around anywhere, anytime. The soaking in a proper bubble bath, a glass of wine, a movie or a book is, sometimes, just as awesome.

It all comes from our mind and what our intuition tells us to believe in.

And then, the world starts to become a little clearer.

In either of the situations, wearing a favourite item always brings joy and, saying that, I once again, make a promise to myself to only remain with a closet full of favourite items. Imagine, then, every day of our lives. Of course, clothes are just a fraction of our focus, but ins’t it nice when we defocus, (not so nice) that we still focus on the clothes we adore on us?

Is this what they mean when they say to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health?

Moreover, having to focus on life rather than on what to wear – sometimes – feels so liberating. As opposed to running around naked through the house pulling your hair out rather than flowing like a snowflake through the house. Naked is fun, too.

So, what this – sometimes – means to me is dressing in something that would fit from day to night. Shoes and hair do the trick most of the times. Ok, and a lipstick I always carry in a bag or another and forget the last time I saw it in. Sounds familiar?

But oh, when I defocus and the lipstick shows up out of nowhere!

Still no lipstick.

In your mailbox would be ideal, yet in your e-mail is pretty close, yay!
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