Get Free

July 09, 2018
Some days can be tough. Wow. Believing in everything for a reason can be really tough at times also. But hey, we can always put our bathing suit on, let our hair free, wear comfy shoes and spin around like there is no tomorrow. When Bali is far away and your computer is right in front of you.

Hello! Yoohoo.

There is magic in action is a sentence that comes to mind whenever I feel like writing a book, but also can’t seem to write one sentence. So, at first, I do any sort of cleaning in the house that had been put on hold because hello, yoohoo, then I make a really good coffee, think of the best sweet thing to eat, drink the really good coffee, eat the sweet thing and, finally, meet the screen. If you stare at it long enough, you can actually see its rolling eyes.

Wearing a bathing suit 🥁 just in case 🥁 is one of the best feelings ever. Especially when, technically, you are not supposed to get into any kind of water due to not making any plans regarding it whatsoever. You are supposed to leave the island (Gili, Trawangan) for the real life, for the big continent, for the big dreams – is what mankind tricked our minds to believe in, appreciate and want.

Luckily, the way to reality was made by a boat we all had super fun and got wet on. Luckily, I had my bathing suit on. And this is how everything happens for a reason.

Spinning time.

Careful what you wish for in dreamland, because it just might happen in the real world. We all waited for the boat to park for about an hour and half due to us all wanting to postpone the arrival on the continent. Just kidding, there were too many boats at the docks.

So we all swayed on the swaying boat under the clear night sky, watched the stars, talked about the universe, listened to music.

Can you believe this was on?

However, real is rare (!). Let us all both love the real and dream, wear a bathing suit only we know about underneath the clothes and all, but also 🥁 know 🥁 that dreams don’t work unless we do.


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It’s All About The Smile

July 17, 2017


***This is on style, too.***

And eyes, yes. The eyes, however, you have to see them live in order to see how alive the one looking at you is or to see straight intro their soul and know, you just know. The smile, though, you can see it from afar and whereas live, circumstances permitting, is the most wonderful way to do it, on tv is not that bad either when it is Roger Federer the one who’s smiling. 

This said at a time when the media is head over heels for Federer’s record eighth Wimbledon title. Roger Federer stands tallest of all as Wimbledon’s history man, The Guardian. Roger Federer, the greatest-ever athlete across all sports after Wimbledon triumph, ABCThis was Roger Federer’s best ever Wimbledon… Now it is undisputed he is the best to ever grace the game, Daily Mail.

Moreover, it is something else in the air. It is him being so genuinely human rather than him breaking down records or mastering a super technique or having superpowers. It is a fact that he is considered today, at 35, the greatest tennis player of all times, but it must be his realness at heart that got him into all of our hearts. He is what he is and he does what he does at the highest frequency possible.

Even when he smiles. Or it is rather the smile that makes him the kind of man he is today.


Because a smile can tell everything about someone if one just pays attention and and if the one paying attention can see through someone while someone smiles and one, too, likes paying attention, then someone and one are both lunatics and that’s a great, yet rare, yet great thing. Staring is not even involved. It’s a couple of seconds. It’s a feeling. It hits one. All of a sudden. That’s a situation.

Another one is just like the one in the video.

In any of the two, a smile creates a certain energy that is being released into the universe and it creates a moment of synergy. Something one can not fight and only possible when everything comes genuinely. Just like when we were all kids and didn’t have any barriers or fears. If you now say “Worries, too, hello!”, please remember that smiling and being human is always available, regardless of the circumstances, inside of you.

The video above dates back from 2010 and Nadal was climbing up the ladder. He succeeded in reaching the top – he is one the best, too – but once there he seems to have lost his way to find himself on the same chair next to Federer and stupidly smile. Metaphorically speaking. Sadly, his nowadays smile is not that genuine anymore. Why? It affects friendships. It affects relationships. Think less, stupid more, a brand once used to say.

Rivalry can not even be considered as an option for the answer.

2017. Roger Federer wins the trophy at the Australian Open.

May it ultimately be about the love of life? Or the passion for what we’re doing? Or the person we come home to? Or the world we create around us? Or is it just a matter of genetics? If it’s about anatomy only and we are energy and smile is energy, we can be who we want to be and we can do what we want to do.

Obviously we can not ha-ha at all times, but we should never forget how to smile from the heart. And then bump into the lunatic we can laugh stupidly with. Or just be.

And obviously it’s not a matter of perfect teeth – though taking care of them is a must, they don’t call it diamonds for nothing after all – because smiling is also about sparkling eyes, is about losing control, is about butterflies, is about the soul. Hello.

It’s light.

And sometimes, just sometimes, it might be someone or something that takes one places and one finds oneself smiling inside out like one has never before. Because sometimes, just sometimes, it is someone or something that “sees” in one a thing not even one has seen in oneself before. And it’s not even about how good or bad the jokes are. It’s that something else.

La luna.

For Roger, it is tennis that makes him so passionate and thus one of the very few who does what he does out of pleasure in the first place. Because the rest of Federer is wonderfully shared by Federer himself with the world he chooses to live in. In the meantime, we can see him perform, being as humble as ever, smile and giving fun interviews. Below.

***And, of course, we can believe. We can dream.***

Roger Federer has style and we are not even talking fashion here.

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Golden. Silver. Bronze. Globes 2015.

January 12, 2015
And the winner is! Not of the Golden Globes. I bet you already know who’s that. Of the best “head-to-toe” is… Bels ringing, hands clapping, awe rising.

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72nd Annual Golden Globe Awards - Arrivals

Sienna Miller. No further comments. In Miu Miu.oz emma stone LANVIN JUMPSUIT

The silver globe goes to Emma Stone. The whole thing just breaths freshness, relaxation, fun and, yet, sophistication. In Lanvin.

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The bronze globe goes to Naomi Watts. For well, everything. Hence the belt. Yet, what’s with the snakes? Around the neck, on the clutch. Hm. Still she is in for the third run. In Gucci. Must be her glow or smth. Moving rapidly on…

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The cut of the dress, most certainly! Not of the hair 🙁 made it what comes after bronze. Diane Kruger in Armani Privé. And hey, why so sad? 🙁

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Aaand, it must be the cheeks, the colour, the hair, her husband (her husband!) or the nit factor of the situation that brings Chrissy Teigen running for the whatsoever fifth globe of the night. In Zuhair Murad. There’re something about it. And her. And him.

And here is what, in my opinion, could’ve been done much better. Come on, girls! We can do this better:

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Love, love Julianne Moore, but it’s like I can’t say “Wow!”. And I know, know I could’ve! In Givenchy.

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Heidi Klum is so sweet. But it’s like it’s too much “sweet” kinda here. The red, long dress, the red shoes, the same red lipstick, the dark tan, the overdone hair. Too much drama. Thank God for the nude nails, though. Eh, gotta love you anyway. In Versace Atelier.

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Claire Danes. I love Claire Danes and I love Valentino. But the two of them here. Just not… It! Could it be the hair…? Or the make-up?


Camila Alves. Now imagine this with the “undone” hair, long, sparkling earrings, a different clutch and a smile. Ah!

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Hey, Cindy! Come ooon! In Versace.

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Allison Williams. Beautiful dress. Armani Prive. Too bad for the make-up and hair. Lots of points for the accessories, though. Non-existent.

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Lupita Nyong. In Giambattista Valli. Beautiful dress.

Written by Cristina Pavelescu

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